Everything is fair in love and war! Well, is it? I ask…
Love and relationships don’t come with instructions or manual. The lack of rules makes it an unfair war and we become either a possible victim or the aggressor. Each one of us wants something from the other: security and protection, stability, understanding or just good sex.
Is there still true love in 2011? Do we still believe in it? And I mean that love that wrote novels and famous poems, that built monuments, that fought real battles! Or is it so mercantile these days that we settle for the need of someone next to us and the animal desire and lustfulness?
This week is Valentine’s Day- just another too commercialized holiday that pushes everybody to spend a lot of money either they are committed (on presents and great surprises) or single (probably on chocolate, ice-cream and anti-depressants). It should be the month of love but instead of reflecting on our feelings and analyzing if we really love the person next to us and why, we starve ourselves to death, we drink plane water with lemon, we throw huge amounts of money on dresses and perfumes just because we hope that in this particular day we will all be Cinderellas. Well, personally, I think it’s just too pathetic.
The real thing that scares me is what comes after the V-day. And which strikes two times in a week: 1 and 8 of March. Now that's a true, mean, sexist period of the year. :))))
ReplyDelete:))) ionut say thank you is just 3 days a I have a suggested present for this days .... a trip in Cyprus ....if you don't have enough money for 2 person send only Dora.....
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ReplyDeleteDora will never leave Romania alone without me. :)
with r without you...:)) just kiddin'
ReplyDeleteI just hope to see you (both) soon :-*
Esti prea pesimista pentru o zi care celebreaza iubirea. Si tine minte -nimic nu te poate atinge decit in masura in care tu ii permiti asta.
ReplyDeleteEu cred ca sunt realista, nu pesimista :) dar oricum astept cu nerabdare sa fiu contrazisa, sa mi se intample sa traiesc iubirea aia ca'n filme si atunci sa scriu un articol siropos cu multe inimioare :)
ReplyDeleteca sa traiesti iubirea ca in filme trebuie sa fii sun influenta etnobotanicelor :))) sau sa dai peste un regizor de telenuvele :))))
ReplyDelete:)) Black Cat, I see that you also believe in true love :))
ReplyDeleteda draga am crezut in TRUE LOVE pina ma muscaf de fund si stii durerea e mare asa ca mai bine no no no no
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